Thursday, August 11, 2016

How to experience financial freedom?




I’m writing this specially to those people who are struggling financially. I’m telling you, I was once like you. I am not really wealthy right now but I can say I’m pretty much living a good life with the resources that I have compared before. 

I started working after college and at the early stage of my career I can say that I didn’t managed my income properly. Because of that, I end up in debts and I’m always negative by the end of every month. I always anticipate the coming of my next salary because every time my salary comes, it seems like it goes with the wind and perishes very quickly. 

After a couple years, by the grace of God and with the help of some friends, I learned the technique of managing my income. Right now, I am so happy that I was able to save and now starting to engage in a small business with a full time work at the same time without compromising the leisure that I still love to do like shopping, eat at fine dining restaurants and little bit of travel at least once in a year.
How did I managed to do that? Here is my advice.

11.    Be a good steward of your finances.

We need to realize that everything that we have right now is coming from God. He is the owner and we are the manager. We need to be wise in everything that we spend. First, ask God for wisdom how will you spend your money wisely. Everytime you receive your salary, always say a prayer “Lord teach me to be a good steward of this finances”.

22.       Bring the whole tithe.

Since I was young, my pastor would always remind us to tithe. In that way God will bless you abundantly. Tithe is the 10% of your gross income to bring for the support to the church. In Malachi 3:10 it says Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.
In this passage, notice the phrase “test me in this”. If you want to experience the abundant, overflowing blessings from God, test him and bring your whole tithe into the His storehouse which is the church. I heard lots of amazing testimonies how God provided all their needs and how He blessed them through tithing. I can say so far this is the best tip I can share to you. Unless you don’t practice bringing your tithe then don’t expect the true financial freedom that is coming from God.

33.       Save Money

This is one of the hardest and most neglected practice by a lot of people. Personally, I know that saving money is very important but it took me years to practice it. Why? Because I don’t have proper planning. I don’t have wisdom how to use money properly. Now I’m going to share to you the best thing to do in order for you to save money.

The moment you receive your salary or income. Set aside your tithe already. Next, you make a list of your bills and grocery. If you are supporting your family, you also put that in the list how much you are going to allot for that. You also set aside an amount for leisure like budget for cinema, shopping and eating at restaurants. Please note, you have to be very wise on this part. Now, you set an amount for yourself how much are you going to save in a monthly basis. You should learn how to discipline yourself that you should learn to stick to that amount whatever it takes.

Go open an account for savings that you cannot easily withdraw. Yes, this really works for me! Since I work overseas, I used my bank account in my home country to save money so I cannot easily withdraw it. Since you already have a breakdown of your salary, the next thing is very important. Segregation. First segregate your tithes, next must be your savings, next is your needs, needs of your family and last should be leisure. Notice this sequence because this is the start of discipline.

How much should be allotted for savings? Well its really up to you, at first I struggled because I’m not used to this practice. What I did was to start with small amount and religiously follow it month by month and when you are able, increase it. If you are a beginner, I advise you to start saving at least 10% of your income and have a goal to increase it in the coming months or year.

44.       Avoid debts

Never ever take loans. Don’t make this as a practice to borrow money because this habit brings curse into your life. If you want to buy something, save for it! Don’t borrow. I personally don’t have credit card. Why? Because I know that I cannot control myself to swipe it everytime I’m attracted to stuff specially if they are on sale. I always pay stuff by cash or by debit card.
If you have existing loans or debts, I advise you to prioritize paying these asap. Immediately get rid of this so you can start saving more. Set a timeframe, a target for yourself when you are going to finish it and accordingly set an amount to pay it.

55.       Weigh the need vs want

When you are buying something, think first if it is really necessary to buy it? Ask yourself if you really need this stuff or it’s just a want. If it’s really needed, then go for it but if it’s a want then think 100 times if you still have budget for that.

66.       Invest
Think of something that will make your money grow. When you save enough money in the bank, it is good to start investing it. Do not be in a hurry, wait for that opportunity because when you have money it is very easy to spend and when you don’t invest it wisely, then your savings can go as quickly as one blink of an eye.
For now, if you don’t have any idea what investment or business you want to engage. I suggest you start with gold and land. These two things can never depreciate. It is a very good investment. Later on I believe, lots of investments and business opportunities will come but you have to be very careful with it because there are a lot of investment scams nowadays. If is its easy money and more than 100% profit, think about it if it’s a scam.
In investing or making business, always start small. Do not put all your money in it because business is always a risk. Some businesses work and some don’t. So just in case it won’t work, at least you still have money in your account. If finally, you found a business that makes a good profit, then start expanding it little by little. 

77.       Don’t be greedy

Learn the art of giving and be generous to those in need. When you are able to give, then give because God is able to bless you exceedingly, mightily more than you could ask or imagine.

Luke 6:38 (NKJV)
38 Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”

                So there it is! This 7 steps really works for me and to those people I know. Lastly I’ll give this passages to in the Bible to encourage you in your journey through financial freedom. Godbless you!

Deuteronomy 8:18
18 “And you shall remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you power to get wealth, that He may establish His covenant which He swore to your fathers, as it is this day.
Galatians 6:7
Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap.
Philippians 4:19
19 And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.
Haggai 2:8
‘The silver is Mine, and the gold is Mine,’ says the Lord of hosts.










Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Liham ng Pag-ibig

Mahal ko,

Sa bawat pagmulat ng aking mga mata inisip ko ikaw sa tuwina. kahit iguhit ko man ang pag ibig ko sayu magkapantay parin ang pag ibig mo at pag ibig ko, di ko mapigilang sabihin sayu araw2 na mahal kita or "I love you" Uu! Gasgas na nga yata ang salitang ito ngunit sa tuwing naririnig ko ito sa mga labi mo lalong tumitibay ang pag-ibig ko sayu..animoy parang nasa malapit kalang..
Mahal na mahal kita hindi ko lubos maisip kung pano ko na kayang maghintay ng napakatagal para lang marinig ang isang matamis na "Uu" laban sa maraming hindi..ngunit plano iyun ng Maykapal at wala akong karapatang tanungin Siya kundi malaking pasasalamat ko at minahal mo rin ako. Na kahit ipagtagpi tagpi pa ang kayamanan sa mundo ay hindi mapapantayan nito ang isang kagaya mo, mahal ko akoy naka tingin sa bawat pagpatak ng oras,minsan may luha na biglang nalalaglag dahil sa pangarap na sana man lang ay mahawakan ka at makausap ngunit salamat sa Dios ay panalangin din ang sagot ng aking kalungkutan na araw2 ay dinadalaw ako..gusto ko ito kahit masakit..ito na yata ang sinasabing hahanap hanapin mo kahit masakit dahil sa lungkot..ngunit mahal alam ko tayo ay hari ng "Cool" at "Chill  ka lang mga katagang nag papangiti satin mga daliring araw2 ay nagiging koneksyun ng magkabilang mundo natin, bago ako magwakas, mahal ko malapit na nga ang araw ng pag iisang dibdib natin akoy nagagalak at di mawari ang kasiyahan kahit na sa isipan ko ay ginagawa itong katutuhanan at actual na nangyayari sa isipan palang ay di ko na mapigilan ang aking kasiyahan lalo na kaya kapag dumating na ang araw na pati ang langit at Dios ay nakangiti na nakatanaw sa atin habang pinagiisa ang buhay natin..akoy iyo at ikaw ay para sakin.

Monday, June 6, 2016

No Boyfriend Since Birth

I remember way back in High school, I and my friends took an oath not to engage in a relationship while studying. I took that promise by heart and I am very determined to fulfill it. I manage to finish my studies and enjoyed being a young professional without engaging in a relationship . How did that happened?

Someone even told me she will build a monument for me because of my status. My classmates accused me of being lesbian because they haven't heard that I had a boyfriend ever. People also said, I have very high standards. But the truth is, it is a personal choice.

I choose to move in the times and seasons of my life. I strongly believe that "there's a time for everything, a season for every activity under heaven" (Ecc. 3:1). Every chapter of my life has its own season. While in school, I choose to focus in my studies while enjoying my youth through building friendships and involving in the community I used to belong. In my case, I used to be very active in the church. As a teenager, I also had several crushes waaaaaaaah.... c'mon guys its normal to be attracted to someone. I am not that abnormal as what other people think. Suitors came, but i choose not to entertain. Mind you, some are really good guys (guys from the church even), but I know in my heart its not yet the time.

I have goals as a single person and that is to land in a good career, travel (the world!), meet lots of people and to become an international preacher (haha). I got all those wild dreams when I was in college and I'm very determined to fulfill them. And oh I almost forgot! Get married to the right man when I'm tired of being single. I also have this concept. "as long as my friends are single, then no pressure!"

I experiences the quarter life crises in between, several days I would cry and cry and cry because of so many reasons. Wiki said, the quarter life crisis is a period of life ranging from twenties to thirties, in which a person begins to feel doubtful about their own lives, brought on by the stress of becoming an adult. For me, majority is still unable to reach the things that I want to achieve - growth!

I can say I passed the season of adolescence to being a young adult. I don't have any regret, not even once for not engaging in a relationship for the past XX years! I have enjoyed a lot being single. Enjoying while waiting. Fulfilling my dreams while waiting. Travel while waiting. Hang out with friends while waiting. Enjoying my salary while waiting. Read and read and read while waiting. Serve God while waiting. Yes, there are difficult times in between but I made myself so loaded I almost forgot that I'm waiting. Waiting for what? Waiting for the right man and right time.

To those who are going through or experienced the same situation, I want to say that I am so proud of you! Keep doing and pursuing your passion. Take your time, so what if it takes like forever. Keep your head high with a humble heart. Make use of everything you have now in a wise manner such as your salary, energy and time being a single person. Sooner or later, you'll just meet the biggest surprise of your life - your LIFETIME PARTNER (just like me)!