Many women out there tend to assume that the guy they like; likes them back. It is very hard to know what is in the heart of the guy most especially if he’s your friend and you see him almost every day. Many times you are wishing if only you can open his heart and see what’s inside of it since he seems so mysterious and secretive about the area of his lovelife. Women who have guy friends, especially if they consider themselves best of friends may or may not end up in a romantic relationship. If not, I believe that at some point one or the other must have considered the thought of “what if we become a couple?”
Anyway, if you are the type of girl who really doesn’t initiate or do the first move to show your affection to the person you like then, you don’t have a choice but to wait. Haha… frankly speaking, I will give you some tips how to end this misery of yours by identifying if your guy friend likes you or not.
1. He doesn’t look at you. One of the most obvious sign that the guy likes a girl is when he constantly looks at her. When your guy doesn’t even looks at you they way you look at him well maybe that’s just a one way romantic love.
2. He doesn’t initiate to send you a text message or chat with you unless if its important. Most of the time he only reply accordingly to what you are asking. Or worst he dares not to reply to your message at all! He doesn’t make conversations with you.
3. He doesn’t initiates to hang out with you; you always do the first move. When he ask for a date, you’ll be disappointed because it’s always a group date!
4. He doesn’t treat you special. You will know if he likes your if he makes a little effort specially on special occasions like your birthdays, Christmas, New Year and Valentines. If he’s treatment or he greets you like any of your friends then probably he’s just treating you as his friend.
5. When you get sick, there’s no special treatment. Sad to say but at times like this, you might hope that he visits you at your house to bring you some meds or fruits but he will just send you a text message saying “get well soon”.
6. He flirts with other girls in front of you. Your guy friend doesn’t care at all what you will feel if he flirts with other women. He will even ask you favor to ask the woman’s number or tell you or rather force you to introduce him to her. As usual you will be pissed off! Haha
7. When he talks about his ideal girl, you realize you don’t fit for his qualifications.
8. When finally you got an extra courage to show a bit of your feelings to give him a hint that you like him but his reaction or response is the opposite to what you are expecting.
That’s it! If half or more than half of the above falls on you, well girl sorry to that say he doesn’t like you. It might be painful if I’m saying this straight to your face because you need to wake up from reality and stop living in fantasy. Don’t worry if he doesn’t feels the same coz I’m pretty sure God has prepared for you someone better. Do not lose your self esteem and be discouraged because they are plenty of fishes in the ocean. Cheer up and be happy. Life is beautiful. There’s beauty in waiting coz I believe that true love waits.
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